Fried Eggs For Dinner
Classic American Buffalo Wings are a favorite at our house. We order Franks’s Red Hot sauce from the states so I can make wings just like The Wing Dome - my favorite joint back in Seattle. Last Tuesday, I loaded up a tray, and when they were half done I flipped them and popped them back in. I set the oven timer at 20 minutes and decided we’ll run off to the gym real quick. I think you already know what happened.
Shoulders hunched down, I put the chicken charcoal bricks in the trash can one by one while every window in our house is wide open on a winter night. That’s when Thinn Thinn grabbed my shoulder, smiled and said “Let’s fry up some eggs like we used to”. The Bible says “a prudent wife is from the Lord.” If it wasn’t for that quick and precise act of grace by Thinn Thinn, I may never make wings again for us. At the very least it’ll take me a while before I touch the oven again.
Dearly Depreciated Designer, Have you ever had a failure deter you from keeping at something? I’ve had a student who hasn’t drawn anything for 11 years because when he was 8 his dad laughed at a post card he made for him. David Kelly, the founder of IDEO says his life’s biggest challenge is restoring the creative confidence that people have lost growing up.
I hate to say this to you, but things will fail. A part will not fit, a page will not load properly, a script will crash, a shot will be out of focus, a product will not sell and I’m sad to report, a patient will die. Projects fail and they will cost … sometimes dearly. At Liftport, we worked on an aerial communication platform and an operator robot for years. We sank thousands upon thousands. On the first field test, nothing worked.
Sometimes, it won’t even be failure that gets to you but the prediction of failure. When I was young, my mother and her sisters went to see a fortune teller. He told my mom that she should worry about my future because I will be an astounding failure. I got in trouble that night. My mom and my aunts got on my case because of a fortune teller. Side note - that experience is one of the major reasons why I became a Christian. The Bible, in contrast says I am fearfully and wonderfully made, and made for a purpose. We’ll touch on that subject in the future. I only have 60 or so words left.
Dear reader, you and I are in the business of creating things never before seen, and talking about ideas never before heard of. You can’t be afraid of failure. When things fail, not “if”, but “when” they fail, it will be discouraging. And that’s when the girl who smiled and thoroughly enjoyed sunny side up eggs and sausages for dinner in a freezing room makes all the difference.













